The Three A’s.
Appreciation, Attention and Affection : comes from the person you least expect that would give you, the right dose of it but the wrong kind of person.
Sometimes, it isn’t that bad to feel loved by a person with the same sex. They know exactly what you need and how much to give. The love you expect from the opposite sex is far less than from a person of the same sex. That’s why I do understand why some girls tend to seek love from gays/lesbians. But for a straight woman like me I know my limits. I appreciate them(lesbo) as much as they appreciate me (but that wouldn’t mean that I’m taking them for granted.) I love them , gay people, as much as they love me.